Monday, 28 September 2015

                                             Workout With My Wife

“I am joining the Saffolalife #ProtectHerHeart initiative and pledging my support to better heart health in Association with BlogAdda.”
What is husband and wife relationship it is just not about staying together under one home, and wife being busy with her house work or office work. It is about sharing each others feelings, problems, happiness, sadness. All together husband and wife must be best friend rather than just being couple.
Every husband has the obligation to provide for the sustenance of his wife. She should be provided with adequate food, a comfortable home, suitable clothes and other basic amenities of life. He should always bear in mind that this woman has disassociated herself from her parents, brothers and sisters, relatives and friends and has joined him to share all the ups and downs of life. Hence, it has become his duty to look after her basic needs and comforts.

Through marriage, a man and a woman each fulfill their dharma, becoming physically, emotionally and spiritually complete. He needs her tenderness, companionship and encouragement, while she needs his strength, love and understanding. Their union results in the birth of children and the perpetuation of the human race. Marriage is a three-fold state: it is a sacrament, a contract and an institution. As a sacrament, it is a spiritual union in which man and woman utter certain vows one to another and thus bind themselves together for life and for their souls' mutual benefit. As a contract, it is a personal agreement to live together as husband and wife, he to provide shelter, protection, sustenance, and she to care for the home and bear and nurture their children. As an institution, marriage is the lawful custom in society, bringing stability to the family and the social order.

Marriage is a jivayajna, a sacrifice of each small self to the greater good of the family and society.
There must be a some responsibility of husband against wife. That is of not just not sharing feelings it also about take care of his wife. It can be of anything, not allowing wife to eat junk food. We usually  sees that most of women getting hart problem mainly because of their increasing in weight. Regular excise may can reduce their weight. For some women there won't be any time of doing that. Because they must be busy with their schedule.   That time it must be a responsibility of husband to take initiative and make her to workout, that is by helping to do her some work and give company to do workout. Now it is also proven that 2 out of every 3 women has heart problem because of their overweight. People who work out with a partner they feel comfortable with are more energetic and happier than those who work out alone, report Santa Clara University scientists.

  After reading this survey about every 2 out of 3 women having heart problem. I am also decided to take responsibility of me as husband more seriously. I actually read about this survey last year and for same time my wife weight is little more if compared to her height. So I decided to do walking daily along with my wife for at-least of 30 minutes. After a year to following this now my wife weight is normal and I confidently tell that walking really works to decrease the weight. It also helped me along with my wife to be a fit man. And also helped us to our relationship to be happy. Because this is the 30 minutes of daily time helped to us to be alone from any others and understand each other much  more better.

Sunday, 27 September 2015

                                           Sachchi Advise By My friend

“I am participating in the #SachchiAdvice Contest by MaxLife in Association with BlogAdda.

From the moment you are born, everyone is always giving you advice and telling you how you should live your life. I always listen to others’ advice, but I do not always follow it. There has been one piece of advice I have followed since the day it has been given to me and will continue to follow for the rest of my life.

The decision making process is never easy. No matter how many tricks you have up your sleeve, you're bound to lose a little sleep over the big decisions. If you're really struggling, Big decisions cause serious stress in your life. Buying a house, getting married, getting divorced, moving across the country, quitting your job, or just deciding what movie to see, can all drain our willpower. Thankfully, you can run through certain exercises that help you through the decision making process. Big decisions can wreak havoc on your emotions, and that clouds your mind so that you can't make a solid decision. The reasoning here is really simple: your short-term emotions get in the way of decisions, and that clouds your judgment. It's hard to break free of your emotions, but it helps to know they affect your choices. It's a pretty common idea that the more information you have, the better decisions you can make. However, at some point, you cross a threshold where you have too much information. It's one of those dumb tricks our brains pull on us that's hard to counteract. When we have too much information, we start to fill in gaps and add weight to information that doesn't matter.  The human mind hates uncertainty. Uncertainty implies volatility, randomness, and danger. When we notice information is missing, our brain raises a metaphorical red flag and says, "Pay attention. This could be important..." When data is missing, we overestimate its value. Our mind assumes that since we are expending resources locating information, it must be useful. It might sound like you're just going to confuse yourself by adding in options that don't matter, but in certain cases—especially something like a move or even a career change—it's about thinking outside your comfort zone in order to make a better decision.

This only works in certain circumstances. Pretending to give advice to a friend about the cheapest moving truck doesn't make sense, but advice on where to move does. This was one of the most helpful ideas for me as I tried to pick where the heck I wanted to go next. I went with an imaginary friend with a similar disposition to me and tried to think of how I'd approach a conversation with them. I pictured the type of questions I'd ask, thought about the various risks I might mention, and even came up with a few things to research about different locations.

From the moment I was able to comprehend what words meant, I can remember receiving one piece of advice from my parents, "as long as you do your best." This advice was given to me in everything I did, from sports to school to my first job. I believe that this is good advice because it tells me that they trust my judgment and will respect my decisions and stand by me, even if I made the wrong ones. This helps to take pressure off of me when I am going to school because I don't have to live up to being a straight A student and try to accomplish goals that are unattainable for me. Instead, I just do the best that I can and know my parents will love me regardless of what grade I receive in a test.
Life is all about taking decision every day. It may be small or big decision of life. From taking what to eat, what to wear etc. Its all about taking decision.

There may be every day decision or life taking decision. Life changing decision some time you can't take alone, may be need of some one who will help to take right decision. I also faced this kind of problem to confusion about taking decision. That situation is like whether  buy a car or bike. It was the heavy investment for me if I go to buy a car. So I gone to one of my close friend to help me this to buy a car or bike. He told me that buying car with loan is dead investment because we don't get any profit in that and if you traveling alone then it is totally waste. And I listened his suggestion and bought new bike which actually good decision of my life and very much happy with it now. I am very much thankful to my friend.

                                          SachiAdvise By Our Closed One

“I am participating in the #SachchiAdvice Contest by MaxLife in Association with BlogAdda.

There is many situation comes in life where you can not take decision alone. It may be of your most precious decision of your life also. Some times we have two option I front of us but we are confused to take which one. During that time we need help from others it can be our close friends or family members. We tell our in what problem currently in and ask what is the suggestion for that. It may help us take decision afterwards easily.

Confusion is uncertainty about what is happening, intended, or required, or bewilderment. It can happen in a tool shed where two shovels are stored and a person is told to take his pick, or in more complicated situations where multiple choices are presented with no obvious correct choice. An example of this can be when a young, inexperienced person, in a restaurant for the first time, is presented with a menu which is full of exotic.

The feeling you call confusion is a big to-do that’s created in your mind when you have all kinds of conflicting thoughts (for example, do it, don’t do it, take a chance, why fix what’s not broken?) and you seriously entertain each of those as if they are helpful or important.

We make decisions every day; everything we say and do is the result of a decision, whether we make it consciously or not. For every choice, big or small, there's no easy formula for making the right decision. The best you can do is to approach it from as many perspectives as possible and then choose a course of action that seems reasonable and balanced at that time. If you have a big decision to make, it can seem

We can encounter situations that are confusing at work, at the grocery store, in relationships, in school, etc. Pretty much any interaction we have with others and the world around us can elicit confusion. When dealing with a confusing situation it is important to stay connected to our instinct and intuition. It is also important to be open to interpret the situation in a new way.

In my life also I faced same problem that is after completion of my bachelors whether to go for doing Post graduation. I was so confused of what to do. That is whether I search job or do the post graduation. Also I have already had  job which I got during my campus recruitment. It was most confusing decision of my life. So i decided to ask suggestions on this with some one. So i went directly to my sister because she is my closest friend also. I kept all my problem in-front of her and asked what will be her decision if she was in same situation. What reply she gave which made me to take decision so easily. That is of going for post graduation. She just replied that ' if you have talent of getting job now only that is after completion of bachelors that means you will get better than this job after completion of postgraduate'. I am so glad that I listened I asked with my sister and took the right decision. Now I completed my postgraduate with distinction and am in reputed company as good position.